How Your Sun Sign’s Quality Sets Your Natural Love Pace
Do you go from your first date to planning your wedding at warp speed? Or do you take your time and let love develop slowly?
Your natural love pace is revealed by your Sun sign’s quality: Cardinal, Fixed or Mutable. So, what’s your approach to amour?
Cardinal signs: Aries, Cancer, Libra, Capricorn
Cardinal signs like to take charge, so love needs to move fairly quickly for you to remain interested. You’re not necessarily romantic, but when you like someone, you’re always prepared to act on your feelings. From making the first move to suggesting that the relationship escalate to the next level, you prefer to take the lead in love.
Fixed signs: Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius
Fixed signs prefer the slow burn — to admire someone from afar and savor the experience of getting close. Moving deliberately might mean you have to ask your partner to be patient, but it ultimately means that you like to take the Read more
35 Brutally Honest Reasons Men Say No to Sex
By The_Stir | Love + Sex – Mon, Feb 13, 2012 12:54 PM EST
It may be hard to believe, but men say no to sex sometimes, too. Oh yes, sometimes even the most promiscuous loverboy pulls the old “I have a headache” excuse and it’s really code for something darker or potentially hurtful or even shocking. Even more shocking than some of the responses I got on “35 Brutally Honest Reasons Women Say No to Sex.”
Because I featured the women’s real excuses, I felt it fair to let our masculine counterparts spill their secrets. I polled many men, some were afraid to share, others … well, they showed no mercy.
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Brutally honest can be brutal, so ladies, just know this may be a hard one to (ahem) swallow. These are the real reasons men say no to sex.
I feel fat.
You got fat and I’m not finding you attractive anymore.
I drank too much whiskey and that means my dick will be useless.
I think Read more
How to Take a Woman to Dinner the Right Way
By John Mariani
Ask her out at least five days in advance. Assuming you’ve got a date, tell her the reservation is 15 minutes earlier than it actually is. This way you’ll be seated on time.
French restaurants may seem romantic… Often they upstage you with a meal that revolves around an exotic menu and wine list instead of you having a good time. And then there’s the snooty factor, where you’re judged as much by the service staff as your date. Especially when it comes to the tip.
On Chinese and Asian restaurants: They are either pushy, crowded, and frantic or completely empty, ensuring you’ll be the only ones in the whole place. In either case, you’ll be out the door in a hurry. Think about it: When was the last time you spent more than an hour in a Chinese restaurant?
Mexican restaurants can be amiable. They have lively atmosphere and acceptable cuisine… but they mark you as a cheapskate. The music usually sucks, but after Read more
10 Signs He’s Not Your Boyfriend
By Anna Breslaw, Glamour magazine
For instance: If you’ve only studied him from afar, through a convenient patch of shrubbery, you’re probably not his girlfriend.
Among the nuggets of wisdom in Chris Rock’s ’99 jam “No Sex (In The Champagne Room)”–”Take off that silly a*s hat” being perhaps the wisest–he says: “If you’ve been dating a man for four months, and you haven’t met any of his friends, you are not his girlfriend.”
Yup, pretty good indication. But if you’re still not sure whether or not the guy you’ve been seeing for awhile has decided you’re exclusive without having a conversation–unlikely!–here are some other ways to detect that you’re not quite there yet.
1. He only talks to you after 11 pm.
2. He doesn’t know whether you have siblings, or how many.
3. When you try to make him jealous by telling him how cool the other guy you’re dating is, he shows genuine interest in befriending him.
4. If you run into someone Read more
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